The Space Between

Drawing on Martin Buber’s philosophy of I–Thou, and the Buddhist roots of Gestalt, this workshop explores the transformative nature of genuine encounter and the role of Love as a quality of presence within relationship. Buber proposed that human life unfolds through two fundamental ways of relating: the I–It relationship, where we engage the world through categorization, analysis, and use, and the I–Thou relationship, where we meet another being in their fullness and uniqueness.

Through experiential exploration, dialogue, and relational practices, participants will investigate what makes authentic meeting possible. How do we cultivate the capacity to be truly present with another person? What allows us to move beyond habitual ways of seeing so that we may encounter the mystery of another? How might Love itself become a way of meeting?

Grounded in relational Gestalt therapy, this workshop explores presence, contact, dialogue, and the sacred dimension of relationship. We will draw on attachment and developmental theory to deepen our understanding of how our histories shape the ways we reach toward, respond to, and make contact with one another. Participants will engage with Buber’s philosophy through lived experience, exploring how I–Thou encounters can become moments of healing, creativity, and transformation within therapeutic and everyday relationships.


The workshop also invites therapists to explore their own relationship with Love, and how this quality of presence may deepen their way of being with clients.

What We'll Explore

  • The relational field and what emerges between therapist and client

  • Presence, contact, intimacy, and differentiation

  • Love as a quality of therapeutic presence

  • The body and relational field as sources of information

  • Attachment, boundaries, and the movement toward and away from contact

  • Trusting the intelligence of genuine encounter

  • Our own relationship to Love

What You'll Take Away

  • A deeper felt understanding of presence and contact

  • Greater sensitivity to what is happening between you and your clients

  • New perspectives on intimacy, differentiation, and boundaries

  • Greater trust and capacity to stay present when an encounter becomes uncertain, charged, or tender

  • A renewed trust in the aliveness and transformative potential of relationship

Who Is This For?

This workshop is for therapists, counsellors, coaches, and other helping professionals who want to deepen their capacity for presence, contact, and transformative encounter.

It may be especially meaningful for those drawn to Gestalt, relational, somatic, attachment, contemplative, or experiential approaches.

Facilitators

Lisa Hartwick

Lisa integrates whole-body awareness, perennial wisdom, relational skill, and over 25 years of experience working with individuals, couples and groups. She regularly teaches and supervises in Gestalt therapy and Gestalt Equine Psychotherapy locally and internationally, and also leads land-based intensives. For more information about Lisa

Sean Frey

Sean’s work invites therapists into creative engagement with aliveness, immediacy, and the living field of relationship. Informed by art-making and ceremonial practice, he supports practitioners to trust their embodied intelligence and to meet therapeutic work as a living, responsive process. For more information about Sean

Date, Time & Location

Friday, November 20 - Saturday, November 21,
12:30-5:30 (Fri), 9-5pm (Sat)

Location: Burnside Gorge Community Centre, 471 Cecelia Rd, Victoria

Cost: $390 regular price

MA Students will be offered a discounted rate. Please email to inquire.

To Register

Please send payment to seanfreytherapy@gmail.com and complete the form below

Art on this page:

  • “Olive Trees” by Van Gogh, 1889

  • 2 Birds by Vello Vinn, 1971

  • “Deux arbres” by Odilon Redon, 1875

  • Two Trees by Emilie Wauters

  • Teeter-Totter Magic Latern Slide, artist unkown.

  • “Persian No. 3” by Owen Jones, 1856